Reed and I were asked to be a Ma and Pa on our Stake's youth trek this summer. We were so excited to go! We got to do a practice trek in May were only the leaders went. It was really nice to get to know some of the other couples in our Stake. At the end of June we had the real trek. The day that it started dawned cold and rainy. We made sure we had our rain coats and headed out.
At the launch area - this is before we divided into families:
Here is Reed and I with our family: l-r: Kyle, Kyler, Ashley, Secora, Madison, Boston, Zion
Trying our the family hug before we all got too stinky:
Us with our handcart. They gave each handcart a different colored flag. The kids had to have at least one hand on the handcart while we were moving. Reed and I were not supposed to help unless it was absolutely necessary:
We would walk for a while and then stop and everyone would grab their bucket and we would sit in a circle and talk. Everyone brought a bucket with all of their personal belongings in it:
The first day we had a mob scene. These horsemen rode down out of the hills and started yelling. Then they told us to get out of here and they dumped some buckets out of the handcarts:
At the end of the day we crossed a river to get to our campsite:
We hurried to set up our tents because the rain clouds were looking ominous (it didn't actually rain on us during our walk although it was very cloudy)
However, as soon as our tents were up the clouds let loose and it poured. We were supposed to have our hoe down but everyone had wet feet and it was getting dark so it was a very short dance. Luckily a guy in our camp offered to dry all of our shoes that night (he had a heater in his tent). That was a life saver!
The next morning we got an early start. Our meals were all taken care of by a cooking committee and all of the meals were great. This was going to be our longest and hardest day of walking.
We walked and walked and walked. We had never done trek in this area so we didn't know how long it would take. The kids walked faster than we thought so our trail boss had to lead us on several detours so that we stayed on schedule. The kids were not happy about having to back track because our trail boss "got lost"
We did the trek on a ranch in the foot hills of the mountains. It was absolutely beautiful country to walk in:
Our long line of trekkers - about 90 kids
We did the women's pull about mid day. The boys were all led up a hill and they talked with their leaders while the girls talked with their leaders at the bottom. Then the girls pulled the hand carts while the boys walked silently from the side of the trail:
We had a good talk afterward about how the girls felt after they made it and how the boys felt as they watched the girls struggle. This was one of my hardest moments because we, as leaders, had been given strict instruction to not help the girls. It was hard to walk beside them and see them struggle and know that I could have made the pull easier if I had pushed, but this wasn't supposed to be easy. It made me think a lot about Heavenly Father and how he must see us struggle sometimes on earth. I think he probably wants to help, to make things easier but he knows that this is not supposed to be easy and that we will learn more from the hard things than from easy times.
We stopped and played stick pull. I think some of the leaders were more competitive than the kids:
More walking:
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That day at lunch time we pulled out a bag of biscuits and talked to the kids about how the pioneers only had 4 oz of flour each day (at the end when they were running out of food). We gave each of the kids a small bag of flour to let them see how much that was. Then we told them that the biscuit was lunch. I expected a lot of groaning and complaining but our kids took the news quite well. We walked for a few more hours and then a horseman rode up who was acting as Ephraim Hanks and he passed out beef jerky and told the story about how he was sent back as part of the rescue group from Salt Lake and how he found a buffalo and killed it right before he found the stranded saints. Then he told us that he had killed another buffalo down the trail and we could go there for lunch. Before this news the kids were starting to drag - we would say "Lets go" and they would slowly grab the hand cart and trudge off. At news of food they grabbed the hand cart and took off and we had to remind them not to run. We went down the trail and found two big coolers covered by buffalo skins. Inside the coolers were sandwiches and carrots and chips.
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We walked and walked and finally arrived at the same river crossing as we had the night before. As we approached the river crossing we saw all of the bishops and branch presidents waiting beside the trail. We sat next to the river and our Stake President talked to the kids about the role of a bishop in their lives. He talked about how the pioneers came to the last crossing of the Sweetwater river and how many of them simply couldn't make it across and so a few young men carried the pioneers across. He talked about how those rescuers could be compared to our modern bishops.
Then each bishop walked across the river with each youth from their ward or branch. It was great to watch. Bishop Holt with one of the girls from our ward:
We got back to camp and had dinner. Then the pony express came and delivered letters from the kids' parents. Then we gave the kids some journaling time and then we had a testimony meeting in our little family. It was definitely the spiritual high point of the trek for me - the kids in our family were amazing. The kids were so mature and each bore a powerful testimony. It was amazing to me to see how quickly we went from being a bunch of strangers to caring for each other and feeling like a family.
The next morning we got up early and had breakfast and then we broke camp. Then we played some pioneer games. We did the three legged race:
Madi and Kyler are in the lead!:
And more stick pull. Go Madi go!:
All of the trekkers:
Then we headed out. The last part of the hike was "Rocky Ridge". We talked about how rocky ridge was for the pioneers and as we walked it one person from each family was pulled out and had to stay behind. We talked about the many deaths that happened on the trail and how the gospel made the partings a little easier but they were still hard. After we made it to the top we stopped for lunch and a discussion and our lost family member returned to us. Then we walked back to the cars. As we got close all the parents lined the trail to welcome us to the "valley".
I am so glad we got to participate in trek. It was great to be able to interact with the youth. It was so nice to be able to feel the spirit so strongly and to learn more about the pioneers and especially about my own pioneer ancestors.