Alan is really good about sharing. A little while ago our family had 3 cookies. I said I didn't want one so Reed had one and he gave one to Conner and one to Alan. Alan was concerned that I didn't have one so he turns to me and says "I'll tell you what..." then he breaks his cookie in half. One half was considerably larger than the other. He looked at them and then he held them out to me and says "which half do you want?" I thought that was sweet of him.
Alan really likes to do things for us without being asked. He likes to get dressed and make his bed and then he will come out of his room with a HUGE smile on his face and say "Surprise!" He really doesn't like us to ask him to do things. Sometimes he will throw a fit when we ask him to get dressed or go get a diaper for Conner because he says "I didn't want you to tell me!" So we have found that if we indirectly ask for things we get a much better result: for example - If I am changing Conner's diaper and I say "Hmm, I could really use a clean diaper" and I make sure I am just saying it into the air, not directed at Alan he will always run off and grab a diaper and come back with it and be so pleased with himself.
Alan loves to have books read to him. I love how when we come home from the library with new books he will climb on the couch and just sit and look through the books. It is nice that he likes all kinds of books now. For a long time we only read books about trains or construction trucks.
Alan's new favorite colors are "all the colors of the rainbow"
Alan likes to draw and write. He loves to sit down with me and write a grocery list or a to-do list. In the past he has enjoyed writing letters and numbers on a piece of paper and then asking me what it says. For example: xyzoafafiotd8io. However he got frustrated when I sounded it out and he realized it wasn't a real word. Now he asks me how to spell something and then he writes it out.
Alan really likes Micah. He loves to come over and put his finger in Micah's hand and feel Micah squeeze his finger. Then he will talk to him and say things like "You sure are cute Micah" or "I am glad you are in our family now Micah".
Alan loves to help in the garden. I am glad he doesn't see weeding as a chore, more like a fun activity.